Delicious Ambiguity

Each day we are born again. What we do today is what matters most. -Buddha

Ciao amici. I have been in Rome for the past 15 glorious days. I decided that I would give myself about two weeks to get acclimated before I formed any sort of definite opinion about the city and its people. As you can see from my greeting, I am in love.

I was warned hundreds of times before my departure to be aware of the culture shock that I was sure to encounter. Maybe I’m just more laid back or have the ability to acclimate to different environments easier than others. The transition between American and Roman life was, what I thought, as close to seamless as you can get. The hardest part for me was kicking the jet-lag.

Since being here I have fallen in love with the Italian way of life. I can’t quite explain exactly what it is, but all I can say is that I haven’t felt this much at home in quite some time. While the Italians are kind, understanding and very helpful (I am spotted as a foreigner in .02 seconds flat, as if I have “SONO AMERICANA” tattooed on my forehead) they are also, I have learned from recent events, quite hysterical. This past weekend Rome saw the most snow that they have had in close to 30 years. As a New Englander, I saw the pitiful 2.5 inches as a dusting. The Romans saw it as a paralyzing monstrosity. For the whole weekend the city was at a standstill. No public transportation, snow and ice everywhere. I’m sure everyone living in NYC or Boston or any other metropolitan area knows the huge street sweepers? Well some genius over here decided that since Rome doesn’t own an army of plows, those were the next best thing. All they managed to do, however, was spit mounds of slush at the pedestrians walking by. And that’s not the best part, I’ve seen desperate drivers pouring bottles of water on their car in freezing air, store owners cracking up ice with gardening tools and even trying to sweep it away with brooms. Something that is so elementary to us in the majority of the US, causes wide-spread panic to a culture that is convinced of its Mediterranean climate. So much so that they refuse to install permanent heating units in their homes and schools. By the way, I’m wearing three pairs of socks, two sweaters and a scarf as I write this during siesta. 

The one thing I was most excited to learn while here is the Italian language. I was surprised when I came here and I was among the few who could speak quite well. My roommate Andrea is also Italian, from Calabria (Io sono di Lazio). With both our prior knowledge of the language, we make a dynamic Italian speaking duo. Our second night in Rome my friends and I met Gennaro and Giovanni, two men who speak hardly any English. But despite the language barrier we get along great, and continue to go out to dinner and the discos with them and other friends. But, our friendship has allowed us to practice Italian on a regular basis. Yesterday while getting paninis with Giovanni, he told me how much my Italian has improved since I first arrived. Having been only here two weeks, I can’t wait to see where my Italian is a month from now.

This post is getting a little lengthly. Even though I want to write about everything and anything at once, I will save some for another time. A presto tutti!

Greetings from Atlanta! Georgia. What an awkward state. I have been to every state on the eastern seaboard. Ironically Georgia is the only state in which I’ve never left the airport. As I made my way from concourse A to concourse E the voice on the speakers said “For those of you travelers just passing through, come back some day and see our beautiful city of Atlanta.” Challenge accepted.
This morning I took off from Logan at 9am. I experienced a few drawbacks before I found my seat, 13A. First off, my bag weighed exactly 74 pounds, a weight Delta wouldn’t accept in their cargo. Here’s a shout out to my pop for fixing that hiccup. But really, how do they expect me to fit 5 months of my life into one bag?! We were delayed a half hour from takeoff due to ice and snow on the wings… Typical for Boston. Once down south, after my monstrous power nap, we were delayed yet again due to thunderstorms and tornados, a storm that I learned hit Alabama pretty hard. Shaking from the turbulence, I touched down in Atlanta at 11:30. Jackson International airport is pretty damn huge. I took a tram that looked more like a New York City Subway car 4 concourses down, swimming in people with southern twangs. After buying a $5 water bottle (yeah…… -_-) I got to my gate: E17, three and a half hours early, where I sit writing this. I can only anxiously sit here waiting for flight DL240 to come and fly me away to an amazing chapter of my life. But that’s after I text my heartfelt “I love you”s to family and friends before my transatlantic flight. Until then, I am twitting my thumbs and eating Smartfood and a grande hazelnut from Starbucks. Us Irish folk weren’t bred to be patient.

Greetings from Atlanta! Georgia. What an awkward state. I have been to every state on the eastern seaboard. Ironically Georgia is the only state in which I’ve never left the airport. As I made my way from concourse A to concourse E the voice on the speakers said “For those of you travelers just passing through, come back some day and see our beautiful city of Atlanta.” Challenge accepted.
This morning I took off from Logan at 9am. I experienced a few drawbacks before I found my seat, 13A. First off, my bag weighed exactly 74 pounds, a weight Delta wouldn’t accept in their cargo. Here’s a shout out to my pop for fixing that hiccup. But really, how do they expect me to fit 5 months of my life into one bag?! We were delayed a half hour from takeoff due to ice and snow on the wings… Typical for Boston. Once down south, after my monstrous power nap, we were delayed yet again due to thunderstorms and tornados, a storm that I learned hit Alabama pretty hard. Shaking from the turbulence, I touched down in Atlanta at 11:30. Jackson International airport is pretty damn huge. I took a tram that looked more like a New York City Subway car 4 concourses down, swimming in people with southern twangs. After buying a $5 water bottle (yeah…… -_-) I got to my gate: E17, three and a half hours early, where I sit writing this. I can only anxiously sit here waiting for flight DL240 to come and fly me away to an amazing chapter of my life. But that’s after I text my heartfelt “I love you”s to family and friends before my transatlantic flight. Until then, I am twitting my thumbs and eating Smartfood and a grande hazelnut from Starbucks. Us Irish folk weren’t bred to be patient.

Bahaha…a moment forever imprinted in my memory.

Bahaha…a moment forever imprinted in my memory.

(Source: bosstownsports)

For the past month and a half I felt like I had all the time in the world. Unlimited hours to see and visit with friends. Unlimited minutes to shop for necessities. Unlimited seconds to pack away the last things into my bags. I have 6 days before I leave for Italy, and I am purely overwhelmed. Believe me, I am so excited to get there, but the laundry list of things to do before I board that plane is astronomical. But like all things I try to take a deep breath and count to 10 and know that 6 days from now those worries will be in the past. 

But those panic attacks won’t be the only thing I leave behind. It’s the memories of this winter break with the people that I will go from seeing and talking to daily to conversations that are few and far between. But, like one of my best friends Miranda says, time moves quick and change moves slow. So for now, these memories will keep a smile on my face until I see my wonderful people again (:

One of the most thoughtful gifts from one of my greatest friends. (Taken with instagram)

One of the most thoughtful gifts from one of my greatest friends. (Taken with instagram)

21 shot necklace- killin it by tomorrow.  (Taken with instagram)

21 shot necklace- killin it by tomorrow. (Taken with instagram)

Special euros for my 21st birthday, thanks pop and mum  (Taken with instagram)

Special euros for my 21st birthday, thanks pop and mum (Taken with instagram)